Friday, October 29, 2010

F/S, M/D, M/S, and F/D

     The relationships that we maintain with our family vary between members.  Everyone acts differently around different people, especially concerning family.  Sex and age that are shared means that more can be shared between them.  This being said, the pairs of father and son and mother and daughter are closer than another assortment.  The pairs that cannot relate are more careful around them.  A father cannot relate to his daughters problems, and vise versa.  A mother’s reaction can be bias, basing the daughter’s life off of her own. 
     For example, a boy and girl, siblings, decide to go to a party in a bad neighborhood, by themselves, separately.  A father would allow the boy to go alone, but might be more cautious of the girl going alone.  In his mind, she is more vulnerable for bad things to happen along the way.  He can relate to the boy, and is not worried because he hasn’t had any bad experiences.  The mother might be equally wary of both children, but I personally cannot speak for her because I am not a woman and cannot relate to her situation. 
     The relationships we hold with family are precious, but sometimes we simply cannot relate.  When the age difference is too great, different generations can’t relate.  The situations could be unheard of to the parents, while commonplace for the children.                              

3 comments:

  1. That makes sense for the most part. But what you said is not always the truth. i grew up with all women and they were the only ones i could go to for my problems. you're also right in saying relationships vary.

    p.s Do you play Halo? if so find me on live i g by Death. thats one of my gamers tags

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  2. Woman usually worry over both of their children, which is usually unneccessary worrying. They need to realize that their children need to grow up sooner or later and they can't hold them back from that.

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